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		<title>Going back to the office? 6 tips to help you adjust</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 May 2022 15:27:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lucy Goodchild</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our working situations have changed dramatically since early 2020. The COVID-19 pandemic caused many people to lose their jobs, and companies around the world made the move to remote work. For example, by June 2020, 42 percent of the US labor <a class="more-link" href="https://blog.ed.ted.com/2022/05/16/going-back-to-the-office-6-tips-to-help-you-adjust/">[...]</a>]]></description>
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<h3>Our working situations have changed dramatically since early 2020.</h3>
<p>The COVID-19 pandemic caused many people to lose their jobs, and companies around the world made the move to remote work. For example, by June 2020, <a href="https://news.stanford.edu/2020/06/29/snapshot-new-working-home-economy/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">42 percent of the US labor force were working from home</a>, and 46 percent of employees in London <a href="https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/employmentandemployeetypes/datasets/homeworkingintheuklabourmarket" target="_blank" rel="noopener">reported working from home</a> at some point in 2020. Over the past year, we’ve nailed the bed-to-Zoom commute: We can be up, presentably dressed (our top half at least), hydrated, caffeinated and in front of the screen in minutes.</p>
<p>Despite the challenges of making our living space into our working space, we’ve gotten used to the comforts of working from home, and <a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/12/09/how-the-coronavirus-outbreak-has-and-hasnt-changed-the-way-americans-work/?=1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">surveys show</a> that employees are feeling anxious about returning to the office. As vaccination rates rise and COVID cases drop, more of us are being asked to go back to in-person workplaces. So how can we make this transition easier?</p>
<p>Here are 6 tips for returning:</p>
<h4>1. Be compassionate with yourself, and others</h4>
<p>The shift to home working was sudden, and that kind of change was psychologically jarring and therefore negative for most people, according to <a href="https://ivpsy.com/meet-meag-gan/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Meag-gan O’Reilly PhD</a>, a psychologist at Stanford, cofounder of Inherent Value Psychology Inc. What’s more, this shift was combined with uncertainty about the future; the loss of autonomy, freedom and connection that came with lockdown; and a level of loss and grief that was unprecedented for many of us.</p>
<p>Being at home all the time and losing familiar structures and routines led some of us to overwork — which might have included taking up new hobbies with overly high expectations — while others struggled to focus. “If you pride yourself on having a good work ethic, that may have hit your sense of self and self-esteem,” O’Reilly says. “I think people were unfairly blaming themselves for struggling. When you’re going through something unprecedented, there’s no bar for this.”</p>
<p>The pandemic also highlighted existing inequalities. O’Reilly asks: “Who was getting the virus more? Black and brown communities, because they’re more likely to be essential workers that deal with people. So for people who are Black and brown, we had to sit and hold and deal with this history and this very present racism, sexism and classism.” At the same time, the murder of George Floyd and continued episodes of police brutality brought grief and trauma to the fore for so many and contributed to feelings of discomfort or othering at work, based upon how employers responded to the movement for Black lives.</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #ff0000;">Consider the things that have changed for you this year and decide what elements you want to keep.</span></p></blockquote>
<p>Besides these huge societal issues were the minutiae — the cancelled holidays, birthdays over Zoom instead of in person, <a href="https://blog.ed.ted.com/2021/06/17/humans-are-made-to-be-touched-so-what-happens-when-we-arent/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">not being able to hug loved ones</a> or even stop by a coworker’s desk to say “hello” in the morning.  We lost or had to adjust the little daily routines that make up our lives, and as many of us are exiting crisis mode, it’s time to take stock of both what your life is like now <em>and</em> what it used to be like.</p>
<p>O’Reilly says it’s important to acknowledge the journey you’ve been on in the past 20 months and give yourself <a href="https://blog.ed.ted.com/2020/03/09/how-to-be-kinder-to-yourself/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">compassion and empathy</a>. Consider the things that have changed for you this year, and decide what elements you want to keep.</p>
<p>“One of the elements I hope all of us keep as we return to work is this idea of shared humanity,” she says. “When <a href="https://ideas.ted.com/the-secret-to-making-zoom-meetings-meaningful-for-you-and-your-coworkers/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">we were all Zooming in</a>, we had kids running in the background, our pets jumping up on our laps. People got to see us as more fully human, and that allowed everyone else to give more grace.”</p>
<h4>2. Be intentional with your time and energy, and set realistic expectations</h4>
<p>If a commute is part of your return to the office, your time is likely to be squeezed during this transition. “We need to accept that we can’t show up everywhere,” O’Reilly says. “Stretching and hustling and trying to be everywhere is not only futile, but it’s exhausting. And it’s trying to solve the wrong problem.”</p>
<p>Instead, she encourages people to think about what projects, teams, activities and individuals they want to be more connected with. How can you show up where you want to be? How are you going to distribute your finite energy and time intentionally? Are there certain things you’ve invested time or energy in that you want to continue? Or leave behind?</p>
<p>If you’re preparing to return to in-person work, you need to understand what it will look like. Companies are taking different approaches, but one thing’s certain, says US-based <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccachenderson/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Rebecca Henderson</a>, CEO of Randstad Global Businesses, which provides HR services. “We’re not going back to what it was pre-pandemic. There are going to be limitations on how people will be getting together.” This could mean that lunch break spaces, meeting rooms and even restrooms may look very different than before.</p>
<p>Another important consideration is vaccination. Not everyone will choose to be vaccinated, and companies will need to decide how to approach this. Get to know the reality you’re heading back into. What are the rules where you work? Are you comfortable with the safety measures your employer has established? Ask questions, and read the information provided by your workplace. Then imagine the situation and give yourself time to adjust to it mentally.</p>
<h4>3. Establish a new routine (and wake up early enough to do it!)</h4>
<p>Working from home, you’ve probably mastered the art of hopping on Zoom at the last minute. The thought of a morning routine might seem like a distant memory.</p>
<p>Think about how you can bridge your current routine with the one you need. Figure out what time you need to wake up and what support you might need at home. “Start thinking about building in small pieces of the routine into your current schedule, so you can scaffold up to what you’re going to need to do,” explains O’Reilly.</p>
<p>Reawaken old habits. Give yourself time to prepare meals if you need to bring lunch to work, or to pick out and iron the work clothes that haven’t left your closet in so long.</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #ff0000;">This shift back to the office gives you the chance to set your boundaries in terms of availability, communication, and when and where you work.</span></p></blockquote>
<p>There could also be new layers of routine during your working day. Perhaps you have to book a particular time slot or day to work in the office, take an extra few minutes to sign in to your building in the morning or undertake a health screening.</p>
<p>And if your workplace is taking a staggered approach to staffing, you might need to plan ahead to make sure you get the benefits of socializing again. Try to coordinate with someone you usually work with, Henderson says. “I really encourage folks to have a routine – a well-defined schedule that you potentially match up with your colleagues. Otherwise, you run the risk of going back to the office but still feeling alone.”</p>
<h4>4. Set your boundaries</h4>
<p>Working from home blurred a lot of boundaries. When you’re sitting at a makeshift desk in your bedroom or kitchen, it can be almost impossible to separate work from home. “You could be having dinner with your family, yet you’re still working,” says O’Reilly. “You’re more accessible – people can email you anytime, so the boundary gets lost.”</p>
<p>This shift back to the office gives you the chance to set your boundaries in terms of availability, communication and when and where you work. Do you want to turn off your emails at certain times? Do you prefer to communicate by Slack or video call? Are weekly check-in meetings most effective? Think about what works best for your productivity and your mental health, and share these findings with your employer and colleagues.</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #ff0000;">Suddenly being around a lot of people again could come as a shock to the system.</span></p></blockquote>
<p>You may feel that you work better from home. Employers are open to different approaches, and this can make it easier for you to establish new boundaries. According to a <a href="https://www.understandingsociety.ac.uk/impact/covid-19-working-from-home-in-wales" target="_blank" rel="noopener">report by the Welsh Government</a>, working from home is a trend that has been increasing since 1981 in the UK, reaching a maximum of 43.1 percent of employees in April 2020. The <a href="https://www.workafterlockdown.uk/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Work After Lockdown</a> research project suggests it won’t be entirely reversed.</p>
<p>“For sure, employers have changed their attitude about productivity at home,” Henderson says. “For many years, a lot of employers didn’t like the work from home scenario because they didn’t feel like they could get their hands on productivity metrics. I don’t believe there are any employers who believe that any longer.”</p>
<p>You might also want to think about your sensory boundaries as you return to a crowded office. Suddenly being around a lot of people again could come as a shock to the system. If it’s not possible to return to work in phases, O’Reilly recommends getting away from the screen regularly. “Inject some ‘admin time’ into the day, and instead of catching up on paperwork, have a sensory break,” says O’Reilly. “Step outside, and close your eyes. Do some breathing or stretching, or engage in some meditation.”</p>
<h4>5. When you reconnect with people, remember they’ve also been through a lot</h4>
<p>Socializing is an important aspect of work, but it’s a big source of anxiety for many. After more than a year conversing with colleagues through screens, you may be worried about being socially awkward. Practice can help here: Go out, talk to people at the store or in the street, and start brushing up on your small talk. Treat yourself with kindness, and take it slowly.</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #ff0000;">Your colleagues may have lost someone, or seen a family member become disabled because of long COVID.</span></p></blockquote>
<p>Then there’s the physical aspect: We need to think about hugs versus elbow bumps, and consider people’s differing levels of comfort with contact. “There need to be conversations around how people want to reconnect, how much or how little, and all that can be daunting for people,” O’Reilly says.</p>
<p>Everyone has experienced the pandemic differently, and some are excited to return to work. So how can you handle this when you’re anxious? In O’Reilly’s opinion, someone who is already struggling shouldn’t have to constantly advocate for themselves, and this is why a compassionate workplace is essential. But sometimes it may be necessary to make yourself heard and speak up for what you require. Those who are excited should be mindful, ask questions and make space for people who are anxious.</p>
<p>No matter where you are on the excitement spectrum, keep in mind what people have been through. Your colleagues may have lost someone or seen a family member become disabled because of long COVID, or they themselves may be struggling with recovery in ways that are invisible. “Take some time to check in and calibrate with people, because that’s going to show up in their work life in some way,” O’Reilly says. “Some people aren’t going to be happy, some people are still grieving, and some people are still losing people. Let’s not forget that.”</p>
<p>Plus: Be mindful of wider issues that have come to the fore during the pandemic. Many of O’Reilly’s private practice clients are Black, Indigenous and people of color (BIPOC), and some of them experienced a reprieve by not being in the office. “They dealt with fewer microaggressions and less toxic culture, especially as police violence, Black Lives Matter and the loss of Black lives was in the news. They didn’t have to go to work and answer questions in person. They had that digital distance that gave them a little privacy.”</p>
<p>There are things you can do to be more aware and compassionate about the experience of your BIPOC colleagues, O’Reilly says. “First, remember Black Lives Still Matter. Second, check in but do not demand or expect to be let into someone’s process. Just leave them an open invitation. And third, continue <a href="https://ideas.ted.com/how-to-be-an-ally-in-the-workplace-13-ways-to-do-it/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">doing your work as an ally</a>. Be on the lookout for microaggressions, emotional labor and when your BIPOC peers are being dismissed or treated inequitably.”</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #ff0000;">When we ask our peers and coworkers how the pandemic was, we should include racial trauma.</span></p></blockquote>
<p>She also urges people to remember that during the COVID-19 pandemic, there was also many incidences of police violence that traumatized people in the Black community. “When we ask our peers and coworkers how the pandemic was, we should include racial trauma. You could say something like ‘COVID is hard. When you’re ready or want to share, I also want to know how all the loss and racial trauma is for you.’”</p>
<h4>6. Prepare to take care of your mental health</h4>
<p>It’s totally normal to plan for anxiety — after all, we do this all the time for big, anxiety-provoking events like weddings and births. O’Reilly recommends following three steps: Pin down a date to return to the office, have an internal conversation about how you’re feeling, and talk to people about it. “Free-floating anxiety is worse than specific worries,” O’Reilly says. “Having an anchor date is grounding, so it’s not sudden or unknown. Asking yourself questions helps you attend to your feelings and adapt to the stressors.”</p>
<p>For example, if you identify that you’re anxious about attending a meeting, this might mean planning to sit at the back of the room. Talking to others — gathering a community — will give you support for managing your anxiety. But O’Reilly says it can go much further. “I think mental health got a big spotlight during this pandemic, finally, in a way that wasn’t as stigmatized, because we were all going through it,” she says. “I want people to know they’re not the only ones. We always do better when we don’t feel alone.”</p>
<p><em>Watch Dr. Meag-gan O’Reilly’s TEDxSJSU Talk here: </em></p>
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<h5><span style="color: #ff0000;">ABOUT THE AUTHOR</span></h5>
<p><a href="https://ideas.ted.com/author/lucy-goodchild/">Lucy Goodchild</a> is a science and technology writer based in Amsterdam. In addition to writing articles, she works with companies and scientists to help them tell their stories &#8212; through websites, publications, press releases, advertising and marketing.</p>
<p><em>This post was originally published on <a href="https://ideas.ted.com/going-back-to-the-office-6-tips-to-help-you-adjust/">TED Ideas</a>. It’s part of the “How to Be a Better Human” series, each of which contains a piece of helpful advice from someone in the TED community; <a href="https://ideas.ted.com/tag/how-to-be-a-better-human/">browse through</a> all the posts here.</em></p>
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		<title>Humans are made to be touched — so what happens when we aren’t?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2021 16:48:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Halton</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our bodies are designed to respond to touch, and not just to sense the environment around us. We actually have a network of dedicated nerve fibers in our skin that detect and emotionally respond to the touch of another person <a class="more-link" href="https://blog.ed.ted.com/2021/06/17/humans-are-made-to-be-touched-so-what-happens-when-we-arent/">[...]</a>]]></description>
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<h3>Our bodies are designed to respond to touch, and not just to sense the environment around us.</h3>
<p>We actually have a network of dedicated nerve fibers in our skin that detect and emotionally respond to the touch of another person — affirming our relationships, our social connections and even our sense of self.</p>
<p>So, what happens when we don’t receive that?</p>
<p>This was one of the first questions that neuroscientist <a href="https://www.gu.se/en/about/find-staff/helenabacklund">Helena Wasling</a> PhD considered when social distancing restrictions were introduced to curb the spread of COVID-19. Based at the University of Gothenburg, Sweden, she has studied these nerves — <a href="https://www.cell.com/current-biology/pdf/S0960-9822(11)01314-5.pdf">known as C tactile or CT afferents</a> — and their importance to our emotions for over a decade.</p>
<p>“What struck me very early on, in the first week of being told that we were restricted from touch,  was that people no longer knew how to behave,” she says.</p>
<p><strong>Even if you don’t consider yourself to be a tactile person, touch is — or was — embedded in the social structure of our lives</strong>. From meeting a new colleague and evaluating their handshake to giving a friend a long hug when we haven’t seen them in a while, it is one of the fundamental ways we have all learned to relate to one another. “To take it away is a very big intervention,” says Wasling.</p>
<p>New York based psychologist <a href="https://www.guywinch.com/">Guy Winch</a> PhD agrees; “Touch is something we associate with emotional closeness, and we associate the absence of it with emotional distance. We may not fully appreciate it, but in pre-pandemic life there were literally dozens of small moments of touch throughout the day.”</p>
<p><strong>This is significant not just in the landscape of our minds, but that of our bodies</strong>. Being emotionally and socially responsive to touch is so biologically fundamental to us that CT afferents are present over almost every inch of our skin, absent only from the palms of our hands and the soles of our feet.</p>
<p>These nerves are, Wasling explains <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omIWt3xq648">in her TEDxGöteborg talk</a>, particularly attuned to three things: a light touch, gently moving, and around 32 degrees Celsius (89F). Which just happens to be human skin temperature. So they are programmed to be most responsive to a gentle caress from another person.</p>
<p>Rather than simply telling our brains that this touch has happened — this is the role of other receptors in the skin that help the primary somatosensory cortex to processes physical sensations — CT afferents instead send signals to the insular cortex. “This is a deeper part of the cortex that deals more with your emotional equilibrium,” explains Wasling. “So you will get kind of a vague sensation. In the best of cases, it will be: ‘That was nice. I’m accepted. I feel safer now. Someone is counting on me.’ CT afferents also have pathways to <a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fnhum.2016.00432/full">parts of the brain that deal with who you are socially</a>.”</p>
<p>For people who have now been living without that connection for a long time, it can be incredibly difficult, says Winch. “I have friends and patients that I work with who have not been touched in a year. At all. Not a handshake. And they are really suffering for it. There’s something that feels very distancing and cold about not having any kind of option for an embrace, and that can leave long lasting scars.”</p>
<p><strong>Hugs, the form of touch we probably all miss the most, are particularly important and emotionally nourishing</strong>, says Winch. “When someone’s crying and we hold them, we’re doing it to comfort, but what it allows them to do is cry more. People usually will hold it together until somebody puts an arm around them, and then they’ll break down because that hug represents security and safety, and because of the closeness we feel when we know and trust that person.”</p>
<p>Moreover, the benefits of touch that we are missing out on are not just emotional and social but also physical; it can <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0304395913006738">reduce pain</a> and <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40750-016-0052-x">stress</a>, as well as giving us a general feeling of wellbeing. These are the areas, says Wasling, where we may be able to support ourselves when we need to go for prolonged periods without social touch.</p>
<p>Here are some of the ways that we can ease the difficulty of living without this closeness — both for ourselves, and the people in our lives:</p>
<h4>Take a shower or have a warm bath.</h4>
<p>Although it doesn’t elicit quite the same physiological response as interpersonal touch, Wasling says the slow movement of the water on your skin is likely to generate a CT afferent response. Having a warm bath also <a href="https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.685.2815&amp;rep=rep1&amp;type=pdf">relaxes your muscles</a>, which can help to alleviate tension.</p>
<h4>Cuddle a pet, or ask to walk someone else’s.</h4>
<p>“Just being close to a furry animal <a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2012.00234/full">has been shown to lower your stress</a>, reduce your heart rate and your blood pressure,” says Wasling. You also have a social relationship with your pet — they rely on you and need you to show up for them.</p>
<p>There’s been <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41599-020-00649-x">a noted increase</a> in people adopting pets during the pandemic, and at least one study has identified the <a href="https://sabeconomics.org/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/JBEP-4-S2-3.pdf">potential therapeutic benefits</a> of human-animal relationships when we are denied our normal level of human social interaction.</p>
<h4>If you are able to see anyone in person, be wholly present — even if you can’t touch.</h4>
<p>When we remove touch from our social interactions, we should consider what else we can emphasize instead. “Maybe we could be better at looking each other in the eyes, if we do have physical meetings,” suggests Wasling. “We can make sure that we see each other, because touching a person is a way of saying that ‘I see you, I acknowledge your existence.’”</p>
<p>Don’t be afraid to have deeper, more meaningful conversations where you really listen — especially if you know someone might be isolated or lonely. While these interactions don’t activate the same touch-based neural pathways, they still stimulate our social sense of belonging and intimacy, says Winch.</p>
<h4>Don’t just “check in” on people who are alone — connect with them meaningfully.</h4>
<p>It feels like everyone from our employers to the Twittersphere <a href="https://www.damemagazine.com/2021/02/24/have-you-checked-on-your-single-friends/">to US vice president Kamala Harris</a> is reminding us to check in on our single friends. But are we going the right way about it?</p>
<p>“When we say ‘check in’ that’s like a checkbox. Tick; done,” says Winch. But that really isn’t enough. While the boredom and frustration of lockdowns are similar experiences for everyone, being isolated from the regular physical closeness of friends and family is uniquely difficult for people who are alone; the elderly, those who live by themselves, and those who are in high risk categories and cannot chance even one hug.</p>
<p>“If you just check in, that’s not going to be sufficient. You should be talking for at least 15 – 20 minutes for that to be a meaningful conversation. You have to really connect,” says Winch. If you’re both feeling Zoom fatigue, try each taking a walk while you talk on the phone.</p>
<p>If friends have described feeling ghostly or unreal, do your best to appreciate that the absence of touch has been a significant emotional loss for them during this time. One that you may never fully understand. <a href="https://ideas.ted.com/why-we-should-all-stop-saying-i-know-exactly-how-you-feel/">Try not to say “I know how you feel,”</a> if you are not in the same position.</p>
<p><strong>“You know that when you touch things, they’re real to you,”</strong> says Wasling. “One of the reasons why I think touch is so important is that it makes you convinced you have a place in the social world of other people.”</p>
<p>As we look towards a vaccinated future, it is difficult to know right now how the pandemic will change our social attitudes towards touch in the long term. Will we still shake hands? Hug colleagues? A UK study conducted from January to March 2020, mostly before lockdown measures were introduced, found that <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/58WGxwkrmrLclT4tcDYX4PB/nine-things-we-learned-from-the-world-s-largest-study-of-touch">54 percent of people</a> already felt they had too little touch in their lives. So we may well want this aspect of our lives to return as soon as possible.</p>
<p><strong>But one facet that worries Winch is how the pandemic has actually reshaped our relationship with touch</strong>; “We took the thing that represents something so close, intimate and important, and now it represents something that’s actually dangerous and you should avoid. Even if we don’t fully register it, we are going to feel surges of anxiety at the idea of getting a hug. It’s going to take a while to bring us down from the danger alert of touch.”</p>
<p><em>Watch Helena Wasling’s TEDxGöteborg Talk here: </em><br />
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<h5><span style="color: #ff0000;">ABOUT THE AUTHOR</span></h5>
<p><a href="https://ideas.ted.com/author/mary-halton/">Mary Halton</a> is Assistant Ideas Editor at TED, and a science journalist based in the Pacific Northwest.</p>
<p><em>This piece was adapted for TED-Ed from <a href="https://ideas.ted.com/we-are-made-to-be-touched-so-what-happens-when-we-arent/">this Ideas article.</a></em></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2020 17:31:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rutger Bregman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Disasters and crises bring out the best in us. This simple fact is confirmed by more solid evidence than almost any other scientific insight, but we often forget. Now more than ever, in the middle of a pandemic, it’s crucial to <a class="more-link" href="https://blog.ed.ted.com/2020/03/23/disasters-and-crises-bring-out-the-best-in-us/">[...]</a>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Disasters and crises bring out the best in us.</strong> This simple fact is confirmed by more solid evidence than almost any other scientific insight, but we often forget. Now more than ever, in the middle of a pandemic, it’s crucial to remember this.</p>
<p>Sure, our news feeds are flooded with cynical stories and comments. <a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-china-51527043" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A report </a>on armed men stealing rolls of toilet paper in Hong Kong, or one about the Australian women <a href="https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/australasia/toilet-paper-fight-sydney-supermarket-panic-buy-coronavirus-australia-a9385156.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">who got into a fistfight</a> in a Sydney supermarket.</p>
<p>In moments like these, it’s tempting to conclude that most people are selfish and egotistical.</p>
<p><strong>But nothing could be further from the truth.</strong> For every antisocial jerk out there, there are thousands of doctors, cleaners and nurses working around the clock on our behalf. For every panicky hoarder shoving entire supermarket shelves into their cart, there are 10,000 people doing their best to prevent the virus from spreading further. In actual fact, we’re now seeing reports from China and Italy about how the crisis is bringing people closer together.</p>
<p>“We’ve learned how to accept help from others,” <a href="https://twitter.com/marcvanderwoude/status/1236704272819068932" target="_blank" rel="noopener">writes a woman</a> living in Wuhan. “Because of this quarantine, we have bonded with and supported each other in ways that I’ve never experienced in nine years of living here.”</p>
<p>Millions of Chinese people are encouraging each other to stand strong, using the expression “jiayou” (“don’t give up”). YouTube videos show people in Wuhan <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/science/video/2020/jan/28/wuhan-jiayou-chants-of-solidarity-spread-across-city-at-epicentre-of-coronavirus-video">singing from the windows</a> of their homes, joined by numerous neighbours nearby, their voices rising in chorus and echoing amongst the soaring towers of Chinese cities.</p>
<p>In Siena and Naples, both on complete lockdown, people are <a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8108199/Coronavirus-Incredible-moment-quarantined-Italians-chant-dont-together.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">singing together from the balconies</a> of their homes. Children in Italy <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/mar/12/everything-will-be-alright-italians-share-slogan-of-hope-in-face-of-coronavirus-crisis" target="_blank" rel="noopener">are writing</a> “andrà tutto bene” (“everything will be all right”) on streets and walls, while countless neighbors are helping each other. (<em>Editor’s note: The above photo shows people in Milan cheering on a flash mob from their balcony while home in quarantine.</em>)</p>
<p>Last week, an Italian journalist <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/mar/12/everything-will-be-alright-italians-share-slogan-of-hope-in-face-of-coronavirus-crisis" target="_blank" rel="noopener">told the Guardian<i></i></a> about what he had witnessed with his own eyes: “After a moment of panic in the population, there is now a new solidarity. In my community the drugstores bring groceries to people’s homes, and there is a group of volunteers that visit houses of people over 65.”</p>
<p><strong>A tour guide from Venice notes: “It’s human to be scared, but I don’t see panicking, nor acts of selfishness.”</strong></p>
<p>The words “andrà tutto bene” – everything will be all right – were first used by a few mothers from the province of Puglia, who posted the slogan on Facebook. From there, it spread across the country, going viral almost as fast as the pandemic. The coronavirus isn’t the only contagion – kindness, hope and charity are spreading too.</p>
<h3>Disaster causes a surge in solidarity</h3>
<p>The surge in solidarity that we’re seeing will come as no surprise to most sociologists. The current situation has obvious similarities to the human response to natural disasters, which has been researched extensively for decades. News reports following a natural disaster are almost always dominated by stories of looting and violence, but in many cases such stories turn out to be unfounded speculations based on rumour. Since 1963, the University of Delaware’s Disaster Research Center has conducted nearly 700 field studies on floods and earthquakes, and on-site research reveals the same results every time: the vast majority of people stay calm and help each other. “Whatever the extent of the looting,” <a href="http://udspace.udel.edu/handle/19716/4242" target="_blank" rel="noopener">one sociologist notes</a>, “it always pales in significance to the widespread altruism that leads to free and massive giving and sharing of goods and services.”’</p>
<p>Yes, panic can happen, and some people may start hoarding. But a British <a href="https://thepsychologist.bps.org.uk/coronavirus-psychological-perspectives" target="_blank" rel="noopener">social psychologist notes</a> that “we’re much more likely to see prosocial behaviors across multiple types of disasters and extreme events”.</p>
<p><strong>That truth echoes back across the ages.</strong> According to <a href="https://geni.us/pgHYkk2" target="_blank" rel="noopener">an eyewitness account</a>, when the Titanic went down, there was “no indication of panic or hysteria; no cries of fear, and no running to and fro.”</p>
<p>When the Twin Towers burned on September 11, 2001, thousands of people patiently trudged down all those flights of stairs. “And people would actually [say]: ‘No, no, you first’,” one of the survivors <a href="https://geni.us/QbdwVa" target="_blank" rel="noopener">reminisced later</a>. “I couldn’t believe it, that at this point people would actually say, ‘No, no, please take my place.’ It was uncanny.’”</p>
<h4>Overhauling our assumptions of human nature</h4>
<p>Believing these eyewitness accounts can be difficult. But that’s due mostly because of the cynical portrayal of human nature that’s taken centre stage in recent decades. For years and years, the worst aspects of humanity have dominated the discourse.</p>
<p>“The point is, ladies and gentleman,” <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VVxYOQS6ggk" target="_blank" rel="noopener">said Gordon Gekko</a>, the main character in the 1987 film Wall Street, “that greed, for lack of a better word, is good. […] Greed clarifies, cuts through, and captures the essence of the evolutionary spirit.”</p>
<p>Year after year, politicians have drafted huge piles of legislation on the assumption that most people are <em>not</em> good. And we know the consequences of that policy: inequality, loneliness and mistrust.</p>
<p>Despite all that, something extraordinary has happened in the last 20 years. Scientists all over the world, working in many different fields, have adopted a more hopeful view of human nature. “Too many economists and politicians model society on the constant struggle that they believe reigns supreme in nature, but that belief is based solely on projection,” <a href="https://geni.us/oZ15" target="_blank" rel="noopener">writes prominent Dutch primatologist Frans de Waal</a>. “Our assumptions about human nature are in dire need of a complete overhaul.”</p>
<h4>Distancing ourselves to embrace each other more warmly</h4>
<p>Nothing is certain, but this crisis may well help us in that process. We may see a dawning awareness of dependence, community and solidarity. “I don’t know what you’re seeing,” a Dutch psychiatrist and mother <a href="https://twitter.com/RemkevStaveren/status/1238364653580935168" target="_blank" rel="noopener">tweeted</a>, “but I’m seeing people wanting to help all over the place. By following official recommendations, or something practical like doing someone’s grocery shopping … ”</p>
<p>My German book editor told me about a note that had been posted in an apartment building:<br />
“Dear neighbours. If you’re over 65 and your immune system is weak, I’d like to help you. Since I’m not in the risk group, I can help you in the coming weeks by doing chores or running errands. If you need help, leave a message by the door with your phone number. Together, we can make it through anything. You’re not alone!”</p>
<p>As a species of animal that evolved to make connections and work together, it feels strange to suppress our desire for contact. People enjoy touching each other, and find joy in seeing each other in person – but now we have to keep our physical distance.</p>
<p><strong>Still, I believe we can grow closer in the end, finding each other in this crisis.</strong> As Giuseppe Conte, the Italian prime minister, <a href="https://www.telegraph.co.uk/travel/destinations/europe/italy/articles/life-in-italy-under-coronavirus-lockdown/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">recently said</a>: “Let’s distance ourselves from each other today so that we can embrace each other more warmly […] tomorrow.”</p>
<p><em>Translated from Dutch by Joy Phillips.</em></p>
<p><em>This article <a href="https://thecorrespondent.com/350/dont-forget-disasters-and-crises-bring-out-the-best-in-people/8167640250-1eab259d" target="_blank" rel="noopener">originally appeared</a> on <a href="https://thecorrespondent.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">TheCorrespondent.com</a>.</em></p>
<p><em>Watch Rutger Bregman’s TED Talk:</em></p>
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<h5><span style="color: #ff0000;">ABOUT THE AUTHOR</span></h5>
<p><a href="https://ideas.ted.com/author/rutger-bregman/">Rutger Bregman</a> is a Dutch historian and staff writer of The Correspondent, a journalism platform for unbreaking news. Bregman&#8217;s new book &#8220;Humankind&#8221; will be published in June 2020.</p>
<p><em>This post was originally published on <a href="https://ideas.ted.com/disasters-and-crises-bring-out-the-best-in-us/">TED Ideas</a>. It’s part of the “How to Be a Better Human” series, each of which contains a piece of helpful advice from someone in the TED community; <a href="https://ideas.ted.com/tag/how-to-be-a-better-human/">browse through</a> all the posts here.</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2020 22:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lauren McAlpine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What happens if you get infected with the coronavirus? Who&#8217;s most at risk? How can you protect yourself? Public health expert Dr. David Heymann, who led the global response to the SARS outbreak in 2003, shares the latest findings about <a class="more-link" href="https://blog.ed.ted.com/2020/03/05/what-we-know-and-dont-know-about-the-coronavirus/">[...]</a>]]></description>
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<h3>What happens if you get infected with the coronavirus? Who&#8217;s most at risk? How can you protect yourself?</h3>
<p>Public health expert Dr. David Heymann, who led the global response to the SARS outbreak in 2003, shares the latest findings about COVID-19 and what the future may hold. Here, he answers the 6 most common questions about the coronavirus:</p>
<h4>Question 1: What happens if you get infected with the coronavirus?</h4>
<p>DH: This looks like a very mild disease, like a common cold, in the majority of people. There are certain people who get infected and have very serious illness; among them are health workers. It&#8217;s a very serious infection in them, as they get a higher dose than normal people, and at the same time, they have no immunity. So in the general population, it&#8217;s likely that the dose of virus that you receive when you are infected is much less than the dose that a health worker would receive, health workers having more serious infections. So your infection would be less serious, hopefully. So that leaves the elderly and those with co-morbidities to really be the ones that we have to make sure are taken care of in hospitals.</p>
<h4>Question 2: Who are the people who should be most concerned about this?</h4>
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<p>DH: Well, the most concerned are people who are, first of all, in developing countries and who don&#8217;t have access to good medical care and may not have access at all to a hospital, should an epidemic occur in their country. Those people would be at great risk, especially the elderly. Elderly in all populations are at risk, but especially those who can&#8217;t get to oxygen. In industrialized countries, it&#8217;s the very elderly who have co-morbidities, who have diabetes, who have other diseases, who are at risk. The general population doesn&#8217;t appear to be at great risk.</p>
<h4>Question 3: What pre-existing medical conditions put people at higher risk?</h4>
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<p>DH: First of all, pulmonary disease existing as a co-morbidity is also important. In general, the elderly are at greater risk, especially those over 70, because their immune systems are not as effective as they might have once been, and they are more susceptible to infections. In addition, in some instances in China, there&#8217;s been a co-infection with influenza and at the same time, there have been some bacterial super-infections on the pneumonias that are occurring.</p>
<h4>Question 4: Where can we find up-to-date information?</h4>
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<p>DH: The <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/index.html">Center for Disease Control</a> in Atlanta keeps track and has updates on a regular basis on its website. Also, the <a href="https://www.who.int/emergencies/diseases/novel-coronavirus-2019">World Health Organization</a> in Geneva, which is coordinating many of the activities going on internationally, also has a website with daily updates. It&#8217;s our responsibility to get that information as individuals, so we understand and can make sure that we can contribute in our own way to prevention of major spread.</p>
<h4>Question 5: What questions about the outbreak remain unanswered?</h4>
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<p>DH: It&#8217;s clear we know how it transmits, we don&#8217;t know how easily it transmits in humans, in communities or in unenclosed areas. We know, for example, that in the enclosed area of a cruise ship, it spread very easily. We need to better understand how it will spread once it gets into more open areas where people are exposed to people who might be sick.</p>
<h4>Question 6: Is the worst behind us?</h4>
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<p>DH: I can&#8217;t predict with accuracy. So all I can say is that we must all be prepared for the worst-case scenario. And at the same time, learn how we can protect ourselves and protect others should we become a part of that epidemic.</p>
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